willing victim

My very deep virtual relationship came to an end.  The wife who was treating him so poorly came on second life to find me and she did.  Unfortunately the guy I was having a relationship with couldn't or wouldn't stand up for me.  He had a strong idea that physical reality was real and virtual reality was illusion.  Soo I had to end the relationship.   I was into helping him climb out of the hole she dug for him, not joining him in that hole.  So I take another painful step toward enlightenment with the knowledge that what is best for me will happen.